So do not be surprised at again finding yourself becoming sensitive, impatient, haughty, and self-willed. You must be made to understand that this is your natural disposition, and without God’s grace, you will never be anything different. “We must bear the yoke of the daily confusion of our sins,” says St. Augustine. We must be made to feel our weakness, our wretchedness, our inability to correct ourselves. We must give up hope in ourselves, and have no hope but in God. Yet we must bear with ourselves, never flattering ourselves, but never neglecting an opportunity to correct ourselves.We need to understand what kind of people we really are while waiting for God to change us. We need to become humble under His all-powerful hand. We need to become submissive and manageable as soon as we sense any resistance in our will. Be silent as much as you can. Be in no hurry to judge, but think through your decisions, your likes and dislikes. In your daily life, stop at once when you are aware of getting in too much of a hurry. And do not be too eager even for good things. Take your time. –FénelonFor if anyone thinks he is something, when he is nothing, he deceives himself. But let each one test his own work, and then his reason to boast will be in himself alone and not in his neighbor. For each will have to bear his own load. – Galatians 6:3-5
Drama at home is like meringue on pie. It’s a lot of trouble to make, serves no purpose that I can see, but some people seem to insist on adding it.
